What you should do if she likes you and you like her

(or An Open Letter To My (Ex) Girlfriend's Future Boyfriend)

So you two are together now, and she seems to be happy with you. To be honest, I'm not sure if I should be happy or sad, but I hope she has found someone like me, because it means you love and care for her without conditions, of that I'm glad! I want to see her happy, even if it could hurt me, so here are some clues and tips for you:

Take her out for food. The shortest way to a woman's heart is through her stomach, but it's not easy. If it's not her taste, it will backfire on you. She loves seafood, especially snails, oyster, chilly crab, octopus... I doubt the seafood will be that easy to find and  taste the same here, but it's your best bet to her heart. Seafood is a must, even if you don't really enjoy it! I would also recommend sushi and ice cream. Any kind, but it must be good stuffs. This woman has a subtle taste. After that two, you can choose any kinds of food you would like to take her to, but she's allergic to peanut butter. Keep that in mind if you don't want to change partner, or you do!

Take her out for drinks. She's one hell of a drinker. She loves wine, likes beer, and always up for a cocktail. Happy hour is the key to save your credit cards, and be ready to engage in drunk conversations of which she has no memories the next day. Carry her home when she's too drunk to be on her own and put her to bed. Be prepared for not talking to her for 2 days straight after due to the hangover.

Spend time do things with her: take her to where people tell her the future, she's pretty superstitious, take her to a movie, take her on a random road trip to the place where you two have never been, go on holidays with her, care for her, cuddle her, hold her, kiss her... but respect her own space and privacy. She's damn independent. She needs time on her own, A LOT, for doing things she likes, meeting people she loves. When she says she's busy or wants to be alone, leave her be, don't force her to do the other way round or question it!

Be ready for some 'hot and cold' moments. She's a Gemini, and a Gemini is a bit....split personalities. They're like two different people in one person, so don't freak out if suddenly she turns, cold, with you. She doesn't hate you, it's just another person of her. She's also quick tempered. You better not to push her or do/say anything stupid or you will see hell hath no fury like a woman's scorn.

Basically that's it. You will find out more and will have your own ways of making her happy. I've both done and experienced that for more than 8 moths, and will still be doing it if I see her again and she hasn't found you. But if you hurt her, i don't know who you are, but I will look for you, I will find you, and I will beat the shit out of you (insert Liam Neeson's line from Taken here).